Why must it be so hard to find the right person? People always say
"Oh were just not in the right place. All the nice, good looking people are someplace other than Chicago, let alone Illinois." But I feel like I'm closer than ever to the person I would love to spend the rest of my life with. They just seem right. Every little aspect that contributes to this persons well being, has met or goes beyond everything that I look for in a partner. But selecting this person and waiting for them also has it's setbacks.. Being as both of us has some pretty
extreme standards with
commitment, I find it hard and kinda doubt that we can ever become anything more than best friends. Although my mind is set to wait for them, and that being anything more than best friends will be something that I've wanted for the longest time now, I don't know that even if I was committed, that they would have to capability to break habit and achieve a relationship.. If they want one with me at all.. Maybe that's it, maybe were both just afraid of what could happen to us or our relationship, rather than of what the definition or commitment really is..
If I could have one thing, it would be that you could love me, and truly love me, for who I am; and be happy while doing so.“He who is most slow in making a promise is the most faithful in performance of it.”
—Jean-Jacques Rousseau
Why must it be so hard to find the right person? People always say "Oh were just not in the right place. All the nice, good looking people are someplace other than Chicago, let alone Illinois." But I feel like I'm closer than ever to the person I would love to spend the rest of my life with. They just seem right. Every little aspect that contributes to this persons well being, has met or goes beyond everything that I look for in a partner. But selecting this person and waiting for them also has it's setbacks.. Being as both of us has some pretty extreme standards with commitment, I find it hard and kinda doubt that we can ever become anything more than best friends. Although my mind is set to wait for them, and that being anything more than best friends will be something that I've wanted for the longest time now, I don't know that even if I was committed, that they would have to capability to break habit and achieve a relationship.. If they want one with me at all.. Maybe that's it, maybe were both just afraid of what could happen to us or our relationship, rather than of what the definition or commitment really is.. If I could have one thing, it would be that you could love me, and truly love me, for who I am; and be happy while doing so.
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